Love & Play in Stockholm

Stockholm family visit

I have a family in Stockholm. A bonus family that I found in Mozambique. My best friend, sister and great inspiration, and her two children whom I adore to little pieces. Ava sometimes says “My mom is your big sister, and I’m your little sister, isn’t that funny?” And it’s indeed the best possible set up I can imagine, I’m getting the best of all worlds with these three.

I only had two days in Sweden after our return from Jordan and before having to move on to Poland, but I had to squeeze in meeting my favourites. So I did. A very pleasant six-hour train ride and two days of shared time, complete with playing, loving hugs and a long proper talk. Moments that nurture the soul.

Stockholm family visit

Stockholm family visit

Stockholm family visit

Stockholm family visit

Stockholm family visit

Stockholm family visit

Stockholm family visit

Stockholm family visit

Stockholm family visit

Stockholm

Stockholm family visit

Stockholm family visit

Bye bye

Ciao to mami :)

So my two guests, my mother and her friend, left after 15 days here. They loved Belize, they had great fun at the Carnival and managed to squeeze in trips to both Mexico and Guatemala during their stay. It was great having them here. I will miss you, Mami.

(Look at my beautiful Mexican blanket!)

ciao

Belize Carnival 2014 – Wet Fete, Jouvert, and a sunrise swim!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belizeans from all over the country came to the capital to celebrate the carnival and go crazy with soca music, dancing, water, mud, chocolate and paint. My first ever carnival experience was an absolutely spectacular one and I haven’t had this fun in ages. We met up with friends and started off with the Wet Fete at 2am, a party where not one person was left dry. We continued to the 4am J’ouvert carnival starting party, with the carnival trucks driving through the entire city, followed by dancing people – completely insane! We danced, danced and danced through the streets filled with lost flip flops and rivers of chocolate until the sun came up, and I was absolutely euphoric about dancing to the sunrise again after such a long time – it was amazing!! Strangers with mud-covered faces were posing for photos, every single person was happy and energetic, old ladies, little kids and booty-popping girls – and Belize managed to dance its way straight into my heart.

We all lost each other in the crowd, obviously, so I followed one of my friends home so she wouldn’t walk alone and was just about to take a cab when Mariela showed up with her car. “We’re going to the beach, come join us” So four of us went to a beach a bit outside of Belize City, and had a beautiful relaxing swim in the morning sun. Water heals and gives joy, and after all of this euphoria overload it was the perfect way to stabilize, have the water calm us down, and just beautifully end by celebrating life and it’s pleasures.

Thank you for an amazing experience, Belize and friends!

(Enjoy the photos, don’t miss the videos below! Contact me here for full resolution photos.)

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Wet Fete!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

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Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Jouvert!

Belize Carnival 2014 - Morning Swim

Belize Carnival 2014 - Morning Swim

Belize Carnival 2014 - Morning Swim

Belize Carnival 2014 - Morning Swim

Belize Carnival 2014 - Morning Swim

Belize Carnival 2014 - Morning Swim

Belize Carnival 2014 - Morning Swim

Belize Carnival 2014 - Morning Swim

Belize Carnival 2014 - Morning Swim

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Belize Carnival 2014 - Morning Swim

Belize Carnival 2014 - Morning Swim

Belize Carnival 2014 - Morning Swim

Gratitude, uncertainty and loving feedback

It gets lonely, it gets frustrating and overwhelming, it feels sad and pointless when uncertainty dominates the horizon. “What am I even here for?”

I’m far from loved ones, far from any form of reliable safety net, far from feeling protected and cared for and far from hugs, love and any realistic potential for growing roots and building a home. I miss birthdays, weddings and people to share my own celebrations with. It breaks my heart that I can’t always be there for my people and nourish the relationships that matter to me the most. The future always feels very uncertain and I can’t plan far ahead. I don’t know where I will be in a couple of months.

But I have something else that I can’t imagine living without yet. At some point in life I decided to live as curiously as possible and make the most out of my reality at all times. I wanted to explore, learn, enjoy and celebrate the little things. But first and foremost I knew that I have to work for a cause I believe in, feel passionate about, grow for and respect. I knew I have to be excited about things to feel fulfilled, and that I can never let fear or worries decide things for me. It’s on the other side of that threshold that things get truly enriching.

And it has been working out so far. I swim upstream, I struggle, I go alone, I take risks, I return to square one, I feel lost and hopeless at times – but on the way I have discovered the most beautiful of places, feelings, people and reasons to love the world. I have discovered that water always heals. And seriously now, I adore my job. I really love what I do and what I learn on the way.

Thank you dears for hanging in there even though I’m far away and busy with work so often. Thanks for your patience, for staying in touch, for keeping me up to date, for finding the time for calls and emails.

And when people I miss and love decide to actually hop on that long flight to come here and experience a piece of my world and reality, I’m just overwhelmed with gratitude and joy. Thank you!

Love!

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Friends from many of the places where I’ve left parts of myself came together and gave me truly beautiful feedback and shout-outs of support on my status update. Thank you all – it means the world to me!

One of the comments was a piece of advice from a wise friend who also lived abroad for a big part of her life:

“The things you think you are losing are right here waiting for you, I used to think the same when living far away from everything and everybody for a long time, but when I felt like starting to set my roots it was all still there, the relationships that matter get built up again, and new ones are formed. Just enjoy and forget about the pressure to “settle down”, it might be the best option for most people but not for everyone, and certainly not at the same time :)”